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Sunday, August 2, 2009
- guidelines to be a good girlfriend.
good game.i pissed him off. sign. i'm really a lousy girfriend. seriously. i need to go reflect on myself. maybe i should go google.. 1. 'how to be a good girlfriend' 2. borrow 'idot guide: introduction to be a good girlfriend' from library **lol while bloggng this i really did google. gonna be long winded. haha How To Be A Good Girlfriend 1. It is very important to give time to your relationship. Do not rush through it. Enjoy the initial phases without worrying about the future. It is often noted that girls get too anxious about the end of the relationship rather than enjoying the present. noted. words in blue is soo true! (-5) --- 2. Give him space. It is often noted that girls complain about less time been given, less attention, etc. do not be obsessive and let him enjoy his life. At the end of the day you are two individuals who meet up to form a couple. So, give him some room to move about like a free bird. words in blue is referring to me! but seriously we hardly meet. a few hours a week only. (-5) --- 3. Be candid and honest right from the beginning. This would give you an added impetus and make your relationship strong. Also, by being sincere, you do not give a chance of any lose ends for your partner to point out. i super duper honest to him. (+10) --- 4. Be optimistic and have a positive outlook. If you always indulge yourself in cribbing and having a pessimistic nature, he would rather run away from you and look for ways to avoid you. Be tactful in your approach and both of you would end up being happy. ok. i'll learn from it. --- 5. Voice your opinion, needs, desires and wants but in a way that does not hurt the other person or sound demanding. Let your feelings be known to him but in such a way that would keep him interested in getting to know and understand you as a person every time. i NEED to master this skill. --- 6.Have realistic expectations from him. Do not go out of the way demanding things which might be too much of a burden and a duty to him rather than an act of love. Be happy with what he offers you because this is the best he can do for you. i never expect a lot. maybe i did. no i didnt. next~ --- 7. If your boyfriend does not like some of your friends, it is okay. He has loved you and not your friends and is even not obliged to do so. All he needs to do is to be polite when he meets them. So do not yell at them when for not liking them. no comments --- 8. Have mutual interest. If he loves doing something, adopt to his likes and interests. In case, you are not fond of what his hobbies, you can at least try to understand what is so special in it that makes him such a huge fan. this one i 100% got. he like to watch the chinese drama 'ai'. i got pei him watch. (+20) --- 9. It is a wrong notion that only girls love gifts. Guys too love it equally well. Surprise him with a little gift every now and then and he would be surely be overwhelmed. You can also go for a handmade gift that would make him feel all the more special. i constantly make cards, mini cupcakes and make something special for him. even got something for him but i keep forgetting to pass to him. he appreciate or not i dont know. but my heart will breaks if he didnt bother to take a look. -- hopefully things will be better. i really hope so. dear i'm sorry. |
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